How Long Can It Take?

Do you have a 2nd, 3rd or 4th grader at home? The infographic below was sent to me by Personal Creations and I thought it was worth sharing. Diego is going to 3rd grade and is an avid reader. This list has great literature selections for his next pick, PLUS it gives us an estimate on how long it will take him to finish a great book. P.s He is currently reading Mr. Popper’s Penguins and The Lemonade War. Happy reading!

How Long it Takes Kids to Read Popular Books

Family Play Time with Google Play

FullSizeRender (16)My family was invited to Google Family Play Time and we received a Nexus 9. However, all statements and opinions are my own.

This past weekend, we stayed indoors due to the non-stop rain but lucky for us, we had an invitation from Google Play to stop by their event and spend some quality family play time with them and their educational partners.IMG_4693 (1)The boys fueled up on impressive healthy snacks (the veggie gardens were gorgeous!) and Elmo cookies before making their way through all of the different stations Google Play had set up.IMG_4694Diego’s favorite station? Tynker. Handsdown. He was flying a drone and became super interested in exploring code to build his own games or app.IMG_4696

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Santi and Jordi explored Sesame Street on the Nexus 9 and I loved how Diego opened up some books and patiently waited for his brothersIMG_4692IMG_4695I also love how incredibly helpful all the guys in my family become when it comes to giving each other a hand with technology! I also had everyone help me navigate through the “Family” category. It is my favorite! Especially the Popular Characters section. I don’t have to do any filtering when searching for Peppa Pig! All of the characters are neatly organized which makes it super easy for Jordi to find his favorites.


DJ DAG loved mixing on the Crayola app. The little guys are dying to try it too!IMG_4689“The sweetest release yet from Android,” Nexus 9 is light, bright and perfect for everyone in my family. We love the protective Bobj Silicone Case too! Thank you Google Play for a fantastic Saturday morning!

What’s Up with Betty?


Hi there! This is what’s up! My boys have been out of school for almost 2.5 weeks now and let’s just say they are keeping me really busy. Diego is doing half day camps (except this week) and that means the little 2 have to learn to play nice with each other…all day long. I swear I spend much more time breaking up fights and sighing loudly throughout the day than working, writing or doing much of anything else. I did find this handy “25 Ideas to Avoid Summer Learning Loss” I wrote for Mommy Maestra that is so helpful and perfect right now.

What else is going on? Oh! I’m on day 24 of #28DayCleanEating challenge! I have been off caffeine, sugar, dairy, gluten and alcohol for the past 24 days. No secrets: Day 2 was the hardest. I suffered from caffeine withdrawal BAD, but over the years I realized coffee was making me really anxious and I knew I had to stop sometime. Also, I won’t lie but…weekends are hard! We love to eat out and often accompany every meal on the weekend with some form of fun alcoholic beverage (Bloody Mary’s for lunch to Spicy Margaritas for dinner!) and my tummy was so bloated. I would also wake up feeling extremely sluggish and although I have always maintained a regular workout routine, I wasn’t feeling energized. So guess what? Even though I wasn’t super perfect throughout this journey,  I have lost about 6 pounds and a few inches off my waist. My weight isn’t fluctuating after the weekends either. My belly feels and looks flatter and I feel AMAZING.  My journey hasn’t been perfect and I will let you guess where I failed due to my weakness and super social life (I kid! Just check out Instagram for proof of me drinking solo!) but I still did way better than I expected. I was not compensated for taking the challenge or to speak of the program. You guys know how much I love to learn and any way that I can help my family and I stay healthy, and pass it on to you…I’m on it! Let’s think before we eat! For additional info on this specific program, please visit HERE or contact Kanani Briggs by sending her a message HERE. I loved the private Facebook support group and I will take all of the new nutrition knowledge I have acquired in the past 3.5 weeks to continue to stay on a healthy path. The next group challenge starts July 6th!! Sign up!

What else I’m doing and loving right now?

Snapchat! Follow me! I’m @MyFriendBetty

Periscope! Follow me! Yup, @MyFriendBetty

I’m loving this leave-in conditioner. Just wash, apply and go! Really nice for these hot days.

And this SPF 30 that leaves your legs and arms looking and feeling super soft.

Just finished Us and starting One Day.

Do you have your summer swim suit yet? These are my favorite and I just picked up this one.

Sharing this immigration post again. We have to continue to share our parents’ and grandparents’ stories. So, so important during this time.

Happy Wednesday!

Your friend,







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Hi everyone! It’s been a while! But don’t you just love that this post and the last are giveaways??!  Thanks for your continuous support while I was away. I’m back to talk about CAbi…you know how much I love CAbi! The clothes are well made, super comfortable and on trend without making you feel like you were just in your teenage daughter’s closet. Here’s one of my favorite looks and THIS ONE! Love. Love. Love.

I have an $88 value CAbi giveaway for you today! If you haven’t tried #CAbiClothing, this is a great way to start. I have my own Candy Print Scarf (look!) and I love it so much that I got one for one lucky MFBS reader! I also picked up these gorgeous Chandelier Earrings to thank you for always coming to my little space to check in on me. Both of these CAbi accessories are perfect for any of your summer outfits and of course they will work as you transition to the fall.  All you have to do is fill out the Rafflecopter below, visit and “like” MyFriendBettySays on Facebook, and follow @myfriendbetty on Instagram and Twitter.

Buena suerte!

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J. Hilburn GIVEAWAY!


Father’s Day is Sunday, June 21st! What are your plans? Hubby would be so happy if we all hang out in the backyard! And let’s not be fooled by Dad’s insistence for us to not buy gifts. Dad loves gifts. Everyone loves gifts.

In the past, we have made our own Father’s Day present, shopped for Hubby, and even asked other dads for ideas. This year, it’s going to be easy! Joy has all of Hubby’s measurements so I can quickly pick something out for him and the boys can still do something more personal.

MFBS has a $50 J.Hilburn gift card to facilitate all of your Father’s Day wishes. Just follow the Rafflecopter’s prompts below and done! Good luck!

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$50 J. Hilburn Gift Certificate: J. Hilburn offers men custom dress shirts and suits.  The Personal Stylist will come to you at your convenience to measure you and help you choose the Italian fabrics and style details.  With custom shirts starting at $99 it’s affordable luxury!  Winner must be a new client to J. Hilburn.  The gift certificate expires on 6/30/16.

Joy Chang, Personal Stylist

phone  973.652.6971


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All Over the Map



This is the final post of my CAbi summer series. I have received CAbi items as gifts for my review. However, all statements and opinions are my own.

I think I have all of my summer outfits set and ready thanks to CAbi. I love, LOVE how every CAbi piece is super comfortable for a mom-on-the-go like me.

This Off the Map Tie Dye dress made it to the soccer fields, a quick trip to the playground, and a nice restaurant over Memorial Day weekend. Please don’t judge me if you see me wearing this same dress every other day. Remember last year’s go-to dress? Yeah, still wearing that one too…BUT this CAbi frock is light, colorful and much more comfortable. The boys are getting a kick out of the tie-dye pattern (they have never seen anything like it!!! jajaja!). I love how they notice their mami’s #ootd!

If you haven’t tried CAbi, a great way to get started is by hosting YOUR OWN party. Hostesses receive so many awesome perks (so many…I’ll be doing a CAbi giveaway soon!). For more details and info to get yourself started with CAbi, please visit HERE. Enjoy!!

images: CR Photography

Breezy Summer Tops





I have 2 fun summer looks for you in one post! When you have CAbi in your closet, it’s just super easy to put outfits together. Mix and match = Instant chic.

For me, white skinny jeans and nude sandals are a summer staple. Having breezy summer tops in different styles and colors helps me prepare for all occasions. I just switch up my bags, necklace and lipstick and LISTA!  This Off The Map Summer Cover Up Tee inspired me to pair it up with a nude lip gloss and pale pink tote. The subtle pink in the top is just right.

The bright blue in the Sun Peasant Blouse needed a bold statement piece like the neon bright cross body. It’s also light and the almost sheer-like fabric definitely calls for a cami underneath.

I love both tops! Which is your favorite? Stay tuned for a CAbi giveaway coming up soon on MFBS!

Above: Off The Map Summer Cover Up Tee
Below: In The Sun Peasant Blouse

Images: CR Photography





Ugh, Monday.

Ugh, Monday

Honestly, with 3 boys, I don’t know if weekends or weekdays are easier! They have me running around like crazy! Plus, there’s all of my stuff to do too! A good weekend around here is a balanced weekend of fun and sleep. We got to do both (follow on Instagram to see!) and needed lots of time to recover. I fell asleep at 8:30p last night. Hence…the late Monday post!

My middle little guys needed a lot of rest too. Allergy season has been really tough for him. It pains us to see how bad he’s reacting to all the pollen. Are you suffering from allergies? I will take any additional recommendation and tips you might have. He is going to see an allergist in a few weeks and I hope to have a better plan for next spring.

Here are your weekend links! Lots of good stuff…

I was over at Mommy Maestra last week with: 5 Ways to Help Kids Deal with Disappointment

In a rut? 5 tips to get out of it!

NJ friends, a creative workshop! Vision and Vino

Have you shared your #Strengthie yet? Here’s mine.

A little inspiration from a female CEO.

Please back CrayonCrunch on KickStarter.

English Proficiency Rises Among Latinos as Speaking Spanish Dips

A Mommy Trade GIVEAWAY just in time for Father’s Day!

Reading now…

This tee!

THESE sandals! As seen on Ivory Lane.

Top Image: Tee shirt: Nordstrom (thanks, Lily!)

Have a great week!


Trust Your Instinct: Mosaic Romper


I am not going to lie! I fell in love with this CAbi romper when I saw it and ordered it right away. But when I received it I thought, “No. I can’t pull it off! I won’t be comfortable! The pattern is too much!!” MFBS friends, when in CAbi hands…NEVER panic! All it takes is a little imagination, a little confidence and lots of trust in yourself and trust in the brand you know you love.

This romper stands out! It’s ultra comfy, the pattern so fun, and it will leave you feeling super sexy. I decided to throw on this blue blazer, which you should all have in your closet by now, and checked in with Chitra (the brilliant woman behind the images!) for approval. We went for it and now she’s ordering it and I can’t wait to wear mine again.

Have fun with fashion. It doesn’t matter if you think something is too young, too trendy, or too “out there”. I get it. As a mom of three boys, I often doubt myself with trendy selections. The key is to make it your own. Since starting this blog, I have taken so many risks, have tried so many new styles and have developed the confidence to pass it along to you. You want to know something? I have never felt better.



images: CR Photography



These pants? Butter. This top? LOVE! When I tried this ETCETERA outfit for the first time, I wanted to live in it! No joke. I felt fantastic.

Etcetera has developed a reputation as a chic, everyday lifestyle brand for busy women by creating elegant pieces that live up to designer standards. Season after season, Etcetera’s collections are sought after by women who love its confident, creative, and bright spirit. I had the opportunity to try on several different outfits and had a hard time selecting just one. Not only did this say “spring” all over but it was easy to finish putting the ensemble together with accessories I already had in my closet.

As a lover of “high-low” fashion, I appreciate a line of clothing that I know I’m investing in for the long run, yet can put together with street-style/fast fashion accessories. Trends come and go but brands such as Etcetera are timeless and worth every penny. Etcetera is available exclusively via appointment-only trunk shows. Etcetera’s collections and their Consultants’ close relationship with their clients, makes for a shopping experience unparalleled in the industry.

Denise Gaffney knew exactly what to select for me when she found out I was interested in Etcetera. Consultants are professionals with fashion expertise and a fantastic personal service. Denise loves and appreciates the opportunities Etcetera has provided for her and would love to extent MFBS readers and opportunity to develop their own business and become their own boss. Perfect!

If you live in the NJ/NYC area and are interested in joining a team that works by-appointment only (your own schedule!), contact Denise so she can help you figure out if Etcetera is right for you. I believe that if you love fashion and have the entrepreneurial spirit, Etcetera can be a great fit. Please email Denise HERE or HERE. Good luck and enjoy!




ETCETERA Mandarin Top
ETCETERA Beachcomber Pants

Images: CR Photography