Full Bloom


I love, love, love tunics!! They are flowy and comfy and cover areas that you sometimes want covered! They are also so light and perfect for spring days.

You can find this specific Tolani silk tunic at Jia Boutique and it can be worn in many ways. While visiting the store last week, we were all talking about the different places to wear this piece. If at the beach, it is perfect to cover up a bathing suit. It would also be fabulous on a boardwalk…paired up with cute flat sandals.

I love this look for a Sunday brunch around town. Whenever wearing a fitted pair of white skinnies, a long tunic is just so right.






Do you love tunics as much as I do? The more colorful the better! It’s spring and everything and anything goes! Remember…it’s what you like that will help you feel confident and well put together!

Tolani Madison silk tunic
Skinnytees seamless slip (one size!)
Dittos Selena white skinny jeans
Sondra Roberts yellow studded shoulder/clutch bag
Stia Couture bangles
Neutrogena lips in Bright Berry
Ann Taylor sandals (old) and loving these!

images: mikifoto by mallika malhotra

Follow Jia Boutique on Facebook for giveaways, new arrivals and more! You can also inquire HERE for any of the pieces you see in this post. Or visit the store! Location: 359 Millburn Avenue Millburn, NJ 

End of a Roller Coaster Ride Weekend


I had THAT week! It has been a long time since I experienced a bad day followed by a fantastic day, followed by an awful day…I couldn’t wait for the weekend to arrive. On Saturday, I did a lot of reading in bed and we all met up with great friends for pizza. The five of us went in to the city yesterday to meet my cousin and his lovely girlfriend. They are in for the week and we just had to go to Landmarc for a scrumptious brunch. It’s the little things, right? Rest, friends, family, great food and crisp champagne are all needed to recuperate from the week.

A big part of my emotional roller coaster is that Baby Jordi is well into the Terrible Twos. Honestly, he is draining everything out of me. Dividing my time between three little guys is hard enough. When one dominates all of my effort and energy (not in a good way)…I just can’t.  I feel guilty,  I lose my patience, raise my voice and end up laying in bed at night thinking of all the things I did wrong during the day. I might be an experinced mom but I’m definitely not a perfect mom. I don’t think any of us strive to be perfect–good moms, yes–but not perfect.

Dear Jordi, I want you to know that Terrible Twos or not, I love you with all my heart. You are so stinkin’ cute, determined and smart! You are a joy to us and your brothers adore you. We know it’s hard to be the youngest. Everyone is talking and moving around so quickly and dragging you to where we all have to be. Believe me that everything must stop when you need to eat and take that great little nap! You are important too and we are watching…and yes, listening to you as well. My heart bursts when you smile. I love you, Mami

It’s a new week! Here are your links. Enjoy!

Because sometimes I need to check with the experts.

Monday morning cuteness.

A must read: Blogger friend writes about what she learned about life from raising an autistic child. 

American Blogger trailer. Can’t wait to see it!

Be humble and kind. It will make your life easier.

6 Secrets for a Faster Metabolism

The Power of the Earliest Memories

Easter egg decorating ideas!

World Cup anthem is out! Have you heard it?

Tomorrow is Tax Day!

When was the last time you checked your horoscope?

Have you experieced the Terrible Twos with your child? I’ll take your advice! Have a great week!

Image shot at Jia Boutique by mikifoto by mallika malhotra

L4LL’s Día Blog Hop with Illustrator Christina Rodriguez

I am so honored to be part of this year’s Latina’s 4 Latino Lit’s Día Blog Hop. Last year, L4LL launched the first Día Blog Hop in honor of Día de los Niños, Día de los Libros which is celebrated annually on April 30th. We thank poet and author, Pat Mora for establishing Día in the United States in order to celebrate books and children.

L4LL has asked 24 Latina bloggers and 24 Latino authors and illustrators to pair up and share our passion for Latino children’s literacy. Today, illustrator Christina Rodriguez is MFBS’s guest! As a former middle school Language Arts and Reading teacher in a Latino community, I never get tired of advocating for books that tell our stories. Please read below…

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Being of Mexican and Korean descent, I am ethnically diverse, but I come from another kind of culture as well: the U.S. military. Both parents served in the Air Force and I lived on various military bases as a child. Memories of life as a military “brat,” plus the learned necessity to “bloom where you’re planted,” influenced my mindset growing up and my present career as a children’s book illustrator.

The Armed Forces boasts strong racial diversity united by a military lifestyle. As a young child I was surrounded by other kids who knew what it was like to change schools, have a parent deployed, and experience the world and other cultures. I had friends from all racial and religious backgrounds, too. Living off-base in other countries gave deeper insights to other cultures and ways of living than the average tourist might experience.

I was a teenager when my dad retired from the Air Force, and we went from a culture where everyone we knew was military to civilian lives where nobody served or knew anyone who did. During my teen and college years I had to dispel many surprising assumptions from my classmates about my childhood and my parents. To this day, that lack of “military cultural diversity” in the civilian population is jarring to me.

Fortunately, I have unique opportunities to enlighten people through my art and career as a children’s book illustrator. I’ve been blessed to work on projects that reflect not just my racial diversity, but also my military upbringing. The Wishing Tree, My Dad’s Deployment, and My Mom’s Deployment are for children coping with military deployment or living the military family experience. I’m grateful to have worked on these projects with my publisher, Elva Resa Publishing. The topics and themes these books explore are universal to all children of military families, regardless of their racial backgrounds. While illustrating these books, I was able to reflect on my childhood in the military culture and illustrate for the child I used to be.


Thank you, Christina Rodriguez! MFBS readers, click here for the complete Dia Blog Hop schedule. On April 30th, make sure to go back to L4LL’s website for a special announcement!

images via Christina Rodriguez

Classic and Chic with Jia Boutique


I love shoppping in my town. There’s something about the personal attention you get from business owners who are most often than not, in the store.

Just under two years ago, after my third baby boy was born, I walked into Jia Boutique in Millburn in desperate need for help. After what felt like I had been living in maternity clothes for over two years, I was clueless on what a mother of three little boys should be wearing. I thought I had to change who I was. I didn’t know how to transition from maternity clothes to regular, stylish clothes that would help me feel like my old self.

When I approached Lindsay and Kim about featuring Jia Boutique on MFBS, I had to tell them how they have helped me (and the blog!) become the confident mother and blogger I am today. Lindsay took the time to help me, encouraged me to wear what felt right (no set uniform for moms!) and didn’t overwhelm me. Kim has two kids of her own and they both understand that moms want to feel and look amazing.

Jia carries all the essentials, and for the next few “mami fashion” posts, we will show you what Jia has to offer: day-to-night wardrobe essentials with flair! At Jia, you are provided with a personalized shopping experience for a statement ensemble that is uniquely yours. The ultimate goal is for you to feel beautiful and confident whatever the occasion. Honestly, I haven’t stopped feeling confident since that first time I stepped through their doors…









Jackets and jeans are my favorite things to wear. I love that we paired up the flats with this classic look. An outfit like this takes me all around town comfortably. For night, switch the shoes for something with a little height and you’re all set! What’s your go-to classic look? 

Articles of Society Cindy girlfriend jeans
Weston Wear Janelle tuxedo jacket
Skinnytees black seamless tank (they come in one size!)
Midori Agate necklace
Sondra Roberts Lucite clutch
Arbonne Lipstick in Coral Reef
BCBG flats sold out but loving these in nude!

Follow Jia Boutique on Facebook for giveaways, new arrivals and more! You can also inquire HERE for any of the pieces you see in this post. Or visit the store! Location: 359 Millburn Avenue Millburn, NJ 

 images: mikifoto by mallika malhotra

Riding Smart and Stylish with Evenflo

DSC_0072This is a compensated campaign in collaboration with Evenflo and Latina Bloggers Connect. However, all opinions and statements are my own.

This is Jordi, our third baby boy. He knows he is about to climb into a new car seat and he can’t wait! It is amazing how kids this young get so excited about these things! I hope that all my boys know that Mami and Daddy only look for the absolute best when making a decision in regards to their safety. We were pleased to install Evenflo’s Platinum Symphony DLX All-in-One Car Seat over the weekend.

Evenflo is taking safety and comfort to the next level with the introduction of the Platinum Protection Series of car seats, which feature NASA-developed Outlast® technology, a temperature regulating fabric that keeps babies and toddlers comfortable during hot and cold weather. The fabric helps to ensure a safer, more peaceful ride for both mom and child and help prevent an accident from ever happening. With the weather changing from that awful cold we have experienced, it was a great relief to put Jordi in this week with a light jacket. I know he felt comfortable and I was relieved to see the seat hug him perfectly.

This specific seat looks sleek and modern too. Which is important to all smart and stylish moms. I want the absolute safest ride for Jordi, but appreciate the bonus when baby gear looks great too. He was very excited to finally have his own cup holders! Just like his two older brothers!

I was also really excited about Evenflo’s Platinum Symphony DLX featuring Buckle Pockets that tuck the buckle tongues away. It makes it easier and safer to get a child in and out of the seats and ultimately protecting kids from hot buckle burns. Isn’t that a great idea?? We love it.

Evenflo continues to go above and beyond government standards to provide car seats that are 2X the Federal Crash Test Standard. In addition to this, this seat includes e3 Side Impact™ Protection, which is designed and tested to reduce side impact forces up to 50%.




I really need Jordi and my other two boys to be happy when we are riding around town or making long road trips. Security and comfort are our number one priority. I know that if Jordi is safely tucked in his Evenflo car seat, I am going to have a great drive with no distractions.

What do you think of Jordi’s new Evenflo Platinum Symphony DLX?

Easter Outfits for the Kids

Spring is here, so what’s next? Easter planning, of course! My sisters and I already started coordinating our Easter day. We agreed on getting together but I’m still unsure of what to wear! For those of you with kids, there is more planning involved, and that includes their outfits. To help out a little, I created two adorable outfits to dress your girl or boy, or at least to inspire what they’ll be wearing.

Scroll down for links and do tell your Easter plans in the comments! ;)


Dress :: Necklace :: Flats :: Shades :: Stuffed Animal

Oxford Shirt :: Tie :: Chinos :: Shoes :: Shades

Click HERE to view other guest posts by Cristalia and don’t forget to follow her on social media sites below:

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Eternal Spring with Neutrogena

DSC_0003This is a compensated campaign in collaboration with Neutrogena and Latina Bloggers Connect. However, all opinions and statements are my own.

It might be too good to be true, but spring is officially here. As a daughter of a mother who hails from The City of Eternal Spring in Mexico, this season is anticipated and celebrated with lots of color!

Cuernavaca, Morelos might be far from me these days, but I see its gorgeous hues such as a deep rosa mexicano, papaya oranges and an array of purples, and my heart swells with nostalgia for the beauty of spring of Mexico.

Color is welcomed in my wardrobe and especially in my makeup bag. I am always happy to use my Neutrogena products and ecstatic to try out their new ones…


I knew I would love Neutrogena’s new Nourishing Long Wear Liquid Makeup. it goes on smoothly, provides the right coverage, and felt fantastic. I crave a little color from the sun that starts taking effect in the spring, but just a little. This formula with an SPF of 20 will help my skin stay protected from damaging sun rays.


With just a little sunkissed glow, Neutrogena’s new Crease Proof Eye Shadow in Forever Platinum looks amazing amongst all the color in my outfit. As the weather warms up, this eyeshadow won’t crease. It’s actually a lot of fun to glide on without a brush. Pair it up with Neutrogena’s MoistureSmooth Color Stick in Sweet Watermelon for a fresh and balanced look.


Unless we are in la ciudad de la eterna primavera, the beauty of spring fades quickly. Keep it eternal in your daily choices by choosing bright colors for your outfits, and long -lasting, Neutrogena products in gorgeous shades for your skin. You’ll certainly carry the beauty of spring all year long.

Follow #NeutrogenaBelleza on Twitter and Instagram!

 Images: My Friend Betty Says

Cozy in Coral and Gray this Weekend


Happy Monday! This week’s “Weekend” post looks a little different! My hubby did such a great job at capturing us in our backyard, so I thought I would make this into a Mami Fashion post as well. Two in one!

Did you have a nice Saturday and Sunday? The sun was so bright this whole weekend and all we did was take it slow. So nice to be still for a change. It’s getting darker later and the boys are restless! They ran around, dug through mud, picked up sticks and they even built a fire with us! Please take a look…







Everything was so color coordinated, right? I often catch myself putting the boys in clothes that match my outfit. Does that happen to you?

Here are your weekend links! Enjoy!

Did you catch my 7 Books to Help Celebrate National Poetry Month on Mommy Maestra?

In love with this t-shirt.

And this one

36 Hours in Cancun, Mexico. Sigh.

13 Reasons Your iPhone Keeps Running Out of Battery. Oh.

Did you see Maria Kang on Nightline?

And here is her beautiful letter to Sara

How to Wear White Denim this Spring.

Just finished reading this.

Sunnies sold out, but loving these!
Scarf sold out, take a look at this one!
Sneakers (Nordstrom Rack)
Link bracelet
Stacked rings
Boys’ jackets

P.s. Lashes (still going strong!) Thank you, Lash House!

Images by: Hubby

The Interestings


I must confess that I finished this book on the plane ride back from San Francisco and I am JUST posting about it! Well into the new book club books (2 this time!), I had to  put everything down to tell you to hurry, go get The Interestings and start reading now.

With many ideas, intertwined lives, and a span of almost 40 years of a group of friends’ years together, in The InterestingsMeg Wolitzer does a fantastic job of having the readers evaluate themselves through the life of this clique. We meet Julie, who is welcomed to an exclusive group of teenagers from Manhattan while on her first visit to camp one summer. The reader can’t help but wonder if Julie will ever feel like she belongs, no matter how far she goes in life. While reading about the lives of her successful and talented friends throughout the book, I kept wondering if in real life anyone is ever satisfied, and if the whole idea of contentment exists in the most ambitious people out there.

Do you ever look at your childhood friends and remember the dreams you all shared while growing up, the individual talents everyone seemed to possess? There’s something so pure about the feeling of possibilities in the teenage years, and if we have the opportunity to witness our friends’ adult lives, it is truly a gift. Some stories surprise us, while others’ lives captivate us, and some are even heartbreaking.

However, no matter where we are in our personal lives, as the characters of The Interestings help us explore, it seems there can be different levels of jealousy (and sometimes even envy) when it comes to our friends’ other friendships, their marriages and careers that compliment their fabulous life. Yet, we are happy for our friends! So, do these feelings arise because of the lack of satisfaction with our own situations? Can these two ideas co-exist? Can we be happy for our friends and be a little jealous at the same time? Very interesting, indeed.

Would love to know what you think of The Interestings. Let me know if you pick it up!

image: mikifoto by mallika malhotra

A Fairy Tale Ballet Party


My goddaughter just celebrated her 4th birthday at a wonderful studio, A Fairytale Ballet in Chicago. Olivia was the first birthday girl to have her party at the Bucktown/Wicker Park location. You have to see these pictures to witness her joy! A fairy tale, ballet, and Rapunzel theme party was thrown for Princess Olivia and I heard it all went smoothly. I’m so sorry I missed it, but am so lucky to have amazing comadres who share so much of their daughters’ special moments with me.

Here at MFBS, I love to share a good party with YOU! Please take a look at this fun party theme…












I can’t handle the cuteness! My favorite pictures are of Olivia eating the sandwich and looking at her slice of cake! Thank you Tiz and Mike for taking and sharing these beautiful pictures. xoxo.

What party theme are you working on next? Please share! 

Location: A Fairytale Ballet
Decorations: Party City
Cake: Sweet Mandy B’s
Food: Potbelly Sandwiches
Small Boxes: Dollar Store
Pastel M&Ms: Amazon
Fairy wings: Amazon
Straws: Amazon