Whose Problem?

Image: The New Yorker

I walked out of the classroom at the age of 26. I had only been teaching for four years and realized I had a change of heart. I was getting married, moving to New York and in the past, in order to pay for college, I had had so many jobs that I thought it would be good to continue to pursue one of those for a second career. Maybe continue auditioning? I loved doing voice-overs. Maybe continue working in the spa industry? That payed really well when I was student-teaching. Why not? My husband had a stable career that gave me the flexibility to re-evaluate. I am not afraid to tell you…I was tired of teaching.

I was teaching outside of Chicago in the Western Suburbs in a predominately Hispanic neighborhood making around $30,000 a year (that was the starting salary ten years ago in the suburbs). Perhaps all the running around to audition for t.v.commercials, creating theater with amazing women, shampooing heads at the salon, helping my dad start his business AND teaching middle school Language Arts and Reading to make ends meet became too much (heck, reading that was exhausting). But I had a lovely scenario in the classroom. I had no more than 20 students in each of my five classes, I taught what I liked and as a team with my colleagues. There was always pressure to “teach-to-the-test” but I compensated with bombarding the children with novels for homework. I also went in early in the mornings to do breakfast/cafeteria duty and stayed late coaching Poms. I even taught an ESL class to adults in the evenings. All those “extras” added up to me making those $30,000.

I had the occasional knuckle-head parent [Read more...]

Wordless Wednesday

Your Teary and Proud Friend,

Betty

Ready to Read?

I had a dear friend email me yesterday with the news that her little one was expressing an interest in reading. Her exact words were, “Mami, show me how to read.” OMG. I. Love. It!!!
But how does one really do it? I’m not an early-childhood teacher or an elementary teacher but an English teacher for the secondary grades (disclaimer: yes, I make grammatical mistakes here and there…my passion is literature. ha!) but Diego started reading right before his fourth birthday (humble brag…now I’m being a mom) and these are some of the things that worked for him. “Worked for him” in the sense that he also expressed an interest in reading very early and these were the materials that I noticed he enjoyed. Did they teach him to read? I don’t know but they surely can’t hurt if you use them for your child. [Read more...]

If I Had a Classroom

Many of you already have the kids back at school or are preparing them to go back any day now. I know a few of you are teachers and are setting up your classrooms for the new school year. How exciting! As I mentioned to you before in my “Back-to-School Tips for You” post, a lot of bookstores and libraries have the back-to-school displays out and ready. I am preparing Diego for Kindergarten so on Friday we took a trip to Barnes and Noble and had an abundance of books to choose from to help ease those first day jitters.

Of all the books to choose from, we came across How Rocket Learned to Read by Tad Hills and we loved it! I thought about how if I was still teaching middle school, I would totally read this book to my students. I would read this book to any child. Rocket is an adorable puppy and a hesitant student at first. He chews on sticks under a tree and wants to nap instead of joining a little yellow bird who has set up a tiny classroom. The little bird decides to start lessons and begins by reading a story but pauses, creating a cliffhanger and leaving Rocket wanting more. Once this little teacher realizes that Rocket can’t read, she is determined to teach Rocket and Rocket starts to learn letters and begins to love stories. The beautiful pictures depict the changing seasons and the “school breaks” where we see Rocket waiting patiently yet practicing what he has learned, and excitedly awaits the return of his teacher.

What a great book for a reluctant kindergartner! I think that it would be great for older kids too so they can remember how amazing it feels when something new is learned. Check it out! I promise you and your little readers will love it!

Do you have any back-to-school favorites? Maybe we saw it at our bookstore? Would love to hear…and read!

Your friend,

Betty

Teacher Appreciation Week

Thank goodness for parent involvement at school! I have not taught a class in over five years so I have to be reminded when Teacher Appreciation Week is approaching. This year, Diego’s preschool moms collected a little cash from the parents to buy gift cards, breakfast and flowers for our amazing teachers. The kids were also to make homemade and personal cards on a piece of 8 1/2 by 11 piece of paper to fill a scrapbook for all of them and the directors. I brought out my scrapbook materials, Diego’s school pictures, glue, markers, stickers and let Diego dig in and create!

Diego setting up his music before he begins!

Never enough glue!

First time using stencils…loved it!

Stickers and signed with love!

Finished! I have to admit, I had to hold the stencils down for Diego and helped him frame his pictures! But he really enjoyed picking out materials and making each card a little different from the next. This project took us three 40 minute sessions and we talked a lot about how special teachers are to us, how hard they work and how much they love their students!

How are you celebrating Teacher Appreciation Week? I have a lot of teacher friends (a few are my BFFs!) and I want to wish them a great week!

Your friend,

Betty

Pre-Kinder Senioritis

Diego Rivera. Agrarian Leader Zapata. 1931


The weather has been amazing, next year’s kindergarten placement for Diego has been decided and Baby #3 will join us in 7 weeks so I have a bit of senioritis around here! Jose took a day off from work on Friday and we all headed in to the city for some quality family time. I feel like every weekend is packed with activities, parties, and errands. We find that scheduling a trip to New York City to do something with the boys must go on our calendar…otherwise we never get around to it. So we scheduled a trip to The Museum of Modern Art (MoMA) to see Diego Rivera’s temporary exhibition and we scheduled a lunch at Edward’s, Diego’s favorite in our old neighborhood! We then took off to Brooklyn to visit our dear friends. Here are some pictures of our day at MoMA. [Read more...]

Average Isn’t Good Enough Anymore


I read things weeks after they have been published. Sometimes years! But, I’m still going to pass it on in case you missed it. The New York Times published this opinion piece a couple of weeks ago and the title caught my eye instantly. “Average is Over”. You can’t be average anymore to keep up in this country. If you want to eat well, live in a nice neighborhood, you have to earn a good salary. Jobs are dwindling and if you lose your job to China, then what? It’s all about education. It always will be. How can we assure that our children are getting the best education possible? It certainly isn’t happening in Ohio right now! A school district in Garfield Heights, Ohio is ending the school day at 1:15 and if your child qualifies for free lunch, they’ll send him home with a sandwich! How sad is that? Budget cuts! How can we get ahead if states and federal government can’t spend money on our children? Thoughts? I’m sad for the children that have no say.
xoxo