We just got back from an amazing trip to Aruba! Unfortunately, because we were not on any schedule, Santi’s potty training was put on hold for a whole week. Although it set us all back a bit, the timing couldn’t have been more perfect! Right before we left I was invited to attend a Pull-Ups teleconference with two potty training experts, Dr. Alberto Andres Cotton and parenting adviser, Jeannette Kaplun. They definitely had the answers to many of my questions and offered a lot of tips for successful potty training.
Dr. Alberto Andres Cotton is a well-respected Miami based pediatrician with 17 years of experience. He has dedicated his career to the well-being of children, as well as providing Latina mothers with the right information to give the best care.
An award-winning journalist and internationally recognized parenting expert, Jeannette Kaplun has over 17 years of experience on TV, radio, and online media. In 1999, she co-founded Todobebé and is the author of Todobebe: Todo lo Que Necesitas Saber para el Primer Ano de tu Bebe.
Dr. Andres Cotton and Jeannette Kaplun have teamed up with the Pull-Ups® Every Flush program to share their expertise with Latina moms by offering tips and advice that challenge some of the preconceived notions of potty training. Here is what I learned:
-Every potty training attempt should be celebrated! Don’t feel like you have to reward with gifts and candy. When Santi started to demand chocolate after every achievement, I realized that I had to get creative. Stamps on the hand, stickers, and even porras and claps work too!
-Regressions are normal when potty training. Although Diego was completely potty trained at 27 months, he regressed over a year later when his baby brother was born.
-Dr. Cotton explained that when a child regresses or wets the bed at night…he isn’t doing it on purpose!
-Ms. Kaplun advises NOT to punish children when they have accidents.
-Keep an eye out for a few days before you start to potty train. Learn your child’s schedule and then use those times to take him or her to the potty. A timer could be very helpful! If you don’t know your child’s routine, make a timer go off every 20 minutes. The ringing will make your child believe that using the potty is fun! I can already picture Santi using the ding as a start to a race and rushing to the bathroom!
-If your child is not interested in potty training, your child isn’t ready. Period.
-Look for the signs of readiness. When a child tells you the Pull Up is wet or there’s a poo in there…your child is ready. Santi doesn’t deny a messy diaper. I know he understands.
-Enforce the POSITIVES of potty training! For us, Santi watching his older brother use a toilet is big boy status around here. I also keep a stash of very cool books in the bathroom and once in a while the iPad can go as well.
-Have your child pick out his own pack of Pull Ups and new undies too! Santi has already chosen his favorite characters.
-Everyone has to be on board when potty training. Please tell babysitters, nannies, abuelitas, dads, and siblings about the plan!
-Patience, knowledge, consistency and communication with all involved in potty training are the keys to success.
Pull-Ups is motivating Moms to stick with Potty Training and I like that they emphasize that you shouldn’t start training your little one until you see that they are ready. Celebrate every flush like in this video! I loved it so much I’m sharing it again!
Are any of these tips already working for you? Please let me know if you have other ideas to add!
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